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Let's move on with two quick definitions. PUA means Get Artist. An opener is really a conversational piece-a question or even a statement or something-which employed by a pick up artist to strike up a conversation with a girl or crowd containing girls.

PUA Routines - Obviously, to attract a female you ought to get speaking with her, which explains why it's very crucial that you get the openers right. Should they fail, the whole conversation fails and, therefore, the chances of you attracting the lady are nil.

So...your openers have to be VERY strong and delivered very efficiently.

You can find three main kinds of openers. They are:

SITUATIONAL OPENERS

They are opening questions or statements that report towards the situation and environment you and the girl you might be speaking with tend to be in and experiencing. The main advantage of situational openers is that they tie you and the girl plus a unifying subject material. The disadvantage is they is often quite tame and without emotion. Your task, therefore, is always to ensure your situational openers are emotionally engaging and interesting towards the girl.

OPINION OPENERS

These are usually questions that involve asking the girl's opinion on a specific matter or topic. They're good due to there being plenty of room for interesting and really engaging conversation from the back-end of the perception opener.

DIRECT OPENERS

They are opening statements and questions which do not hide behind any real "reason". They're simply direct types of starting a conversation using a girl and often take the type of a one-sentence 'gambit throw down'. Basically, you say something for the girl which makes her respond, then develop your conversation with her after that.

Here are two samples of powerful openers. Reduce costs is known as the Bridging Technique. It lets you start a conversation in a normal (and even somewhat uninteresting way) to find the girl on your side and the dialogue alive. You then use the existing dialogue to bridge into a much more interesting and high-energy mode, which is what hooks the girl or group. For instance:

PUA Routines - Suppose you're in a bar or at a party, you might start the dialogue by saying, "Hi. How's it going?" Whatever she says. She'll probably say something fairly non-committal, like "fine" or "okay, thanks". The moment she answers, say, "What do you think with the crowd? The people here?" As you find out question, browse around in the men and women. She'll perform the same. This shared moment helps build the bond involving the couple. You're doing something together. She'll probably answer by saying something similar to, "Yeah, they seem nice" or "They're okay, yeah". Now you've talked for a few moments plus a dialogue continues to be established between the both of you, you are able to transition to the real meat of one's opener. The basic rule is, intensify the intrigue and interest with what you say next. In this example, you could say, "Yeah, I believe all of them are right. Actually... (relocate a little nearer to her like you are going to tell her a secret), there's one guy I'm not sure about. There he could be! (point out somebody who looks like somewhat of a character. Maybe he's wearing a weird way something like that.) Do you want to protect me if he arises to us and asks us to pull his finger or something like that?"

You can get a little wacky, just keep things fun and unpredictable. She'll join in and you will have mutually felt sexual chemistry before very long. Keep in mind that a bridge opener is but one which starts with a day to day comment or question that no girl will discover tough to answer, then moves into a more flirty, unusual mode.

That is a good illustration of a situational opener. Now let's look at an illustration of this a viewpoint opener. This is particularly good since it has got the women laughing AND quite possibly DISAGREEING with one another, the industry perfect method to inject some real energy to the group, which now includes you. This distracts the members of the audience from thinking, "How come he is currently talking in our group?" They're having an excessive amount of fun to consider anything like this. However, you're making their group's dynamic BETTER. It's called the Umbrella Opener and it goes like this.

Approach the audience and almost walk past them. Right before you pass them, reverse similar to something just flashed to your mind-this decreases the impression that you've specifically approached THEM over every other group. Without facing them dead-on (turn the body slightly away), say: "Hey, you think it's okay for any guy to carry an umbrella?" They will either say:

- YES - NO - I am not sure - WHY ARE YOU ASKING?

They won't saying whatever else. Here's what to react within each case:

- YES "Really? Even if he does this as he carries it?" Now pretend to hold an umbrella above your mind and stand out your pinkie finger, like people do after they drink tea inside a goofy way. They are going to laugh. Should they still say yes, then ask one of the girls if she'd mind her boyfriend carrying an umbrella like this.

- NO "What whether it was raining, wouldn't you need him to guard you against the rain?"

- I'm not sure "Would you mind if the boyfriend carried one along with his pinkie finger out like this?"

- WHY ARE YOU ASKING? "Because me and my friends are already referring to masculinity and femininity. One friend says she (social value is added here!) thinks it's cool, my other friend says he thinks it's gay looking.

Cocky Funny Quotes - Through the of these four positions you can preserve the conversation easily, since the group will probably be divided on which they believe. You are able to work off this by created some controversy. The group will banter amongst themselves. Then you can bridge into a new topic. Introduce yourself, ask how they know one another, etc.